My niece turned 11 years old that day and unwrapped a book of riddles in the morning. Later, as my extended family gathered under a tent in my sister’s backyard to break bread together and celebrate for the first time since last year, my niece’s tiny voice* released one of those riddles into the carefully measured spaces between tables, and suddenly the separation of missing each other evaporated into old and young piling on with the greatest riddles they had ever heard – cute ones clever ones funny ones confusing ones and pure groaners from the dads that were there (because that’s their job) until there was no space between us – there was only laughter and joyous togetherness. In that moment, it felt like a normal year like no time had passed when we were apart. In that moment, there was no riddle to stump us or furrow our brows, there was only us being us together even with all the empty spaces between us. *Thank you, Vivian.
